Have you ever been drawn to someone’s personality? They might not be the most beautiful person you’ve ever seen, but you really feel as though they have their life together, and would be a great person to have around.
You might have bumped into them at a bar, or in the school playground, and thought ‘wow, it must be great to be them!’
The good news is you can be that person too. And don’t start telling me you’re an introvert and this just isn’t you. Because the real trick is to be aware of how you make the people around you feel.
How Have An Attractive Personality:
- True To Yourself
- Don’t Fret Over The Small Stuff
- Listen To Their Body
I’m not going to sit here and tell you to ‘be confident’ – we all know that it’s just not that easy! But a key trait of people with attractive personalities is confidence. It’s possibly because so many people lack self-esteem, anyone with confidence has a really positive aura.
If you’re not a naturally confident person, you can still ‘fake it until you make it’. That means standing tall, speaking clearly and looking people in the eye when you interact with them.
It’s time to start believing in yourself. Believe that what you want will come true, and that you are in control of your own life. This will make you come across as a more confident person, who is able to communicate what they are going to do in the future.
Daily affirmations can help you get there!
Empathy is the ability to understand how someone else feels. And in order to truly understand how someone feels, you have to listen to them and engage in what they’re saying, without bringing the conversation back around to yourself.
That’s not an easy habit to make (humans are naturally self-centered), but it will make people instantly like you because they feel heard.
4. True To Yourself
It’s incredibly important to say true to your own thoughts and feelings. That means snapping out of that people-pleaser mindset and not going with the group because you don’t want to ruffle any feathers!
You can disagree with people without falling out! So long as you do it in the right way.
Remaining true to your morals and standards means people will respect you more.
5. Don’t Fret Over The Small Stuff
Attractive people aren’t often worriers. Instead, they can see the bigger picture.
If someone is late, it’s ok – they’re here now and that’s what’s important. If the kids get their clothes muddy while playing, it’s ok – at least they had fun!
Most people who have attractive personalities are excellent communicators. And I don’t just mean that they’re chatty (some people can say a lot without saying anything).
To be more attractive, you must be able to communicate your beliefs and boundaries clearly. This makes you appear as a more confident person which again, will make people drawn to you.
7. Listen To Their Body
I cannot begin to tell you how important it is for you to listen to your body. Attractive people are healthy people!
That doesn’t mean you have to fit a certain size, but you do have to listen to your body and understand what it needs. That could be resting, a certain type of food or you may even need to cut out caffeine or alcohol!
You can’t have an attractive personality if you’re caught up in how awful your body feels that day!
The Take Away
All of these traits are essentially based around you feeling good, which gives you the ability to make other people feel good! Whether you want to start making a better first impression, or if you’re looking to grow your friend group, these tips are sure to help.