Stop Faking It and Understand Your Own Pleasure

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It’s 2022 and can you believe that there are women out there who are faking orgasms during sex? This is just one of many ways in which the ‘pleasure gap’ is widening, as women put men’s ego above their personal satisfaction. The pressure and anxiety to orgasm, and to visibly enjoy sex will only contribute to a diminished understanding of your own body and what contributes to you having great sex and, ultimately, a great orgasm. 

Why are orgasms important?

Orgasms are have multiple benefits to female health: they release oxytocin to relieve anxiety, improve mood and boost immunity. Regular orgasms help regulate your menstrual cycle and alleviate cramps. Unfortunately, these health-boosting benefits are achieved by a lucky few, as only 46% of cis-gender women regularly orgasm during sex (compared to 91% of men), and only 18% vagina-owners orgasm from penetration alone.

Ultimately, if you’re struggling to achieve orgasm during intercourse, you need to have a conversation with your partner. But there’s also a lot to be gained in further understanding your body through masturbation, which will enable you to have more authentic sexual experiences.

Why female masturbation is so great

Megwyn White, Director of Education at Satisfyer and Certified Clinical Sexologist highlights the importance of masturbation and self-discovery for breaking the bias surrounding female sexuality:

“There’s a common misconception that pleasure always comes from the outside, in the form of a partner. Masturbation, however, teaches us that we are ultimately responsible for our pleasure, and that’s a good thing. There will naturally be times that we find ourselves alone, which is why taking pleasure into our own hands is so important. 

Every time you masturbate you have the potential to make new discoveries and deepen your relationship with owning your sexuality and releasing any stigmas and shame. Shame and stigma only function to stifle our sexual potential.”

Take some time alone and connect with your body, exploring your own ways of pleasure. Megwyn White suggests a couple of questions that could facilitate the journey of self-discovery:

“First, determine what type of sensations you prefer, and which part of your body do you enjoy being touched? Do you like clitoral stimulation, or do you need more indirect clitoral touch? Do you like G-spot massage or dual stimulation of the clitoris and G-spot? Once you determine what you like then focus on trying a pleasure product that targets that particular area. Once you know what you want and how you want it, you could also try and transfer your self-pleasure techniques to sex with someone else.”

Invest in yourself

Enjoy simultaneous stimulation of the G-spot and clitoris with the vibrations and air-pulse features of the Satisfyer Sunray. The app-controlled silicone rabbit has a flexible joint that easily adapts to your anatomy.

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With 3 power motors, the Double Flex gives equal, stimulating attention to the G-spot, clitoris and outer labia. Thanks to the silicone flex technology, the device is especially comfortable – while still providing exciting vibrations via the app.

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Enjoy extra deep stimulation like never before with the Satisfyer A-Mazing 1! This A-spot vibrator has a curved, ergonomic shape and a narrow, flexible tip that hones in on your A-spot to pamper it. By stimulating your A-spot, which lies hidden behind the G-spot, a whole new world of intense climaxes and sensations opens up to you.

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About Satisfyer  

Blending tech innovation and sexual health, Satisfyer is the leading sexual wellness brand dedicated to creating pleasurable, multi-sensory experiences for consumers. Established in 2016, Satisfyer is the largest global sexual wellness brand advocating that sexual health is for everyone, regardless of their sexual preference, socioeconomic background, age, gender, or skill level. 

As the fastest growing sexual wellness brand worldwide, Satisfyer is now available in more than 100 countries, with over 200 products and 440 design awards. Satisfyer offers the most comprehensive and robust assortment of high-quality and innovative products, all at accessible prices. The company’s award-winning innovation, Satisfyer Connect, is a free app that integrates touch, sound, and haptic feedback, allowing users to explore creating their own personalized pleasure programs and virtually control the device of a partner seamlessly. The app is consistently updated and offers new user experiences for your app-enabled Satisfyer product. Satisfyer leads the category in many countries, due to its marquee product, the Pro 2, with over 25 million sold since 2016, and 100.000+ reviews on Amazon. 

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